Talent Break

I was sort of blown away this week.

No, not by the news. 

Because as outrageous as it gets in Washington, D.C., nothing surprises me.

Even when the design for a 250 foot high, ugly-ass arch with a gold-gilded Lady Liberty on top, the latest project from our POTUS, was released several days ago, I wasn’t taken aback.

And certainly not outraged. 

Only momentarily nauseated. 

I mean… are they kidding with this nonsense?

I save my outrage for wars.  And treaties negotiated by bad summer stock versions of smart and honorable statesmen.

Oh, and sexual assault.  Whether they be one and done or multiple accusations of the aforementioned.

We’re dealing with that here in California by way of the current governor’s race.

As, it seems, every state in the country is in some form.

Especially in Washington, DC, which technically is not a state. 

Unless you count one of the mind.

As for the complete Epstein Files and justice for those survivors.

It will happen. 

IF we demand it.

Are we are living in a simulation?

Meanwhile, what we’re left with aside from No Kings rallies, is self-medicating our way through our everyday lives.

Since I was a chubby kid, I can only take food so far.

And since my father was a compulsive gambler and sometimes drank too much, and my mom was prone to rage blaming in my younger years – addictions, or being one to enable them, both scare and repel me.

Not that I haven’t been tempted over these times to do otherwise or would blame anyone who decides to resort to some form of it out of, well, whatever the reasons.

No judgement here.

At least not about that.

But I have found that, when all feels lost, something primal always seems to get me through –

Talent.

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Did you say talent?

Or at least an appreciation thereof.

Sure, we all have our talents. 

And make of that what you will. 

In fact, use your imaginations and please, please do.  That’s the least we can provide for you in these, um, challenging times.

But specifically the kind of talent I’m referring to is show business talent, especially the surprising kind.

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Me, when I discover someone’s talent

So it might not seem like much in comparison to all of the above stuff I felt the need to just go into, but here’s what I was blown away by this week.

In this little hit show on HBO called The Pitt, which is about to conclude a superb second season after winning a boatload of Emmy awards for its first, there is an actress named Isa Briones.

She plays an in-your-face too often snide, too often insensitive even though we suspect she’s damaged and sensitive inside, E.R. doc named Trinity Santos.

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Paging Dr. Santos!

Santos is just a second-year resident but has a very large, nee enormous, protective chip on her shoulder.  The kind of person you think you’d want to banter with (Note: Well, maybe only if you were me) but in actuality you’d probably not have the nerve to tangle with.

Because truthfully, it’s just easier to sit everything out these days. 

Especially when democracy is not at stake. 

And anyway, Santos is actually quite democratic in her own way since she has no sacred cows.  At the end of the day, she’s an equal opportunity offender. 

With a sort of heart. 

Sometimes.

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Just ask Huckleberry!

Which is more than I can say for some, ahem “people.”

But who knew that Santos – aka Isa Briones – could sing the way that she does.

Yes, I knew she came from a musical theatre family and could sing.  But, well, not like this.  Not with so much……well, so much.

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The hair! The dress! The voice!

It was pretty shocking.  In the best way.  It took me out of my mind (Note: As they say, it’s a dangerous place to spend too much time in alone) and out of this world and into another stratosphere for a while.

Too much of a buildup?  Well, see for yourself.  Or find someone or something that can provide a much-needed respite for you.

We’re in a race here and it is, indeed, a marathon.

So now – here’s Santos – or shall I say – Isa Briones – currently appearing on Broadway as Connie Francis – in the hit musical, Just In Time. You’re welcome.

Play it over 100 times, as I did this week.

Or find one or more of your own.

2025: As It Was

Of course, every day of life is a gift. 

That becomes apparent once people your age start dying or you are personally touched by tragedy at too young an age. 

Or any age.

And who am I to argue with the idea that the meaning of life is to find your gift and show it to the world?

and I will!

Well, I could argue that. 

What if your particular gift is lying, cheating and generally wreaking havoc on the world, which in turn inspires others to do so and destroy it as we know it?

You see where this could be going.

If I let it.

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Mr. Whatsit is here to help

I should’ve known 2025 wasn’t going to be “all that” when at the end of its first week my cell phone started audibly blaring with warnings from the city of L.A. to evacuate my home because a nearby canyon suddenly went up in flames.

Of course, I already knew that.  My sister warned me five minutes earlier, my shrink had just called to warn me (Note: Yes, he knows where I live) and the TV happened to be on with footage of planes and helicopters dropping uncountable gallons of water all over the neighborhood.

Never a good sign.

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It’s hard to even imagine this really happened

Of course, my husband and I were lucky, so this day was, indeed, a gift. Our house survived and so did we.  Not so lucky were the hundreds of homes and people in other neighborhoods that didn’t make it.

Not much of a gift for them. 

I mention all this not to recount my worst day in 2025 or to prove that this year was cursed from the beginning and would prove to be so for anyone truly sane.

Instead, I bring it up to offer there is another way to look at it.

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brb getting out my second pair of glasses

Everyone reading this, and the billions more with the ability to still read it, survived and were gifted at least one more day. 

Probably more.

The question is, what we’ll do with them.

Just know, I HATE this kind of sentiment. 

These bromides of positivity.  This glass half-full sort of thinking.

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Don’t come to me with this!

But there was a time when I was convinced I also hated Brussel sprouts until Ina Garten instructed me how to douse them with olive oil, kosher salt and pepper and roast them in the oven at 400 degrees for about 30-35 minutes.  Since then they have become the house vegetable, sometimes with balsamic glaze and other times simply with fresh parsley and some additional sea salt.

Allowing me to know that even if everything else was shitty that day, at the very least I succeeded at not only eating my vegetables but actually enjoying them.

Which is more than I ever did during my first 25 five years of “gifted” existence. #SoMuchMoreHealthSoManyMoreGiftsToLive

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Way to go Chairy!

There is no point in us recapping the many disasters of 2025.  The school shootings, the affordability crisis, the cold-blooded murder of well known public figures, along with so many non-famous people who also have friends, families, loved one and talents, nee gifts.

And never mind the grifting of money from the unfortunate or unknowing, the worldwide bending (Note: though not breaking) to authoritarianism, the ravages of international war or the demonization of immigrants, nee anyone not white and Christian.

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And here she comes again

For a married gay guy with a very Jewish last name like myself, whose grandparents on both sides were immigrants, this is especially troubling. Even more so because I actually know and like not only Muslims and Somalis but non-whites of all sorts of colors from all over the world.

Going to one of the first mandatory integrated elementary schools in New York City in the sixties will do that to you.  As will growing up in most urban cities.  As will growing up anywhere and having parents who aren’t racists.

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This

Everyone gets treated exactly the same way.  Including the whitest of Christians.

That didn’t seem exactly progressive to me back then but I never would have predicted the world we have all been gifted for at least another day.

And yes, probably more.

That said, 2025 did have a few cool things. 

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Let’s get to the cool thing!

My favorite film was One Battle After Another, Paul Thomas Anderson’s brilliant black comedy/drama treatment of the times. I also thought Sinners was pretty damn good, as was a small indie film called The History of Sound.

On television, Netflix early in the year gave us the gift of the limited series, Adolescence, and wrapped up the year with a wonderful final season (Note: One more episode to go!) of Stranger Things. HBO Max started out the year with a riveting new show, The Pitt and ended it with the LGBTQ+ series I could have only dreamed of as a kid but never would have, that viral sensation known as Heated Rivalry.

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Oh God am I a hockey fan now?

Now if only both companies would stop gobbling up other companies. Or selling out to other companies, or billionaires, or beefy politicians, and the entire planet would be a better place.

This entirely circumvents the subject of A.I. because seriously, I can’t right now…

Instead, let’s consider at least one happy couple who were gifted overtime in 2025 – Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce.  They’d better at least be happy in real life.

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This has to be endgame. Please God.

As should the new mayor of NYC – Zohran Mamdani.  He’s got great ideas for my hometown AND he’s Muslim.  Imagine that!  Well, I can.  As can my very Jewish blood brother Mandy Patinkin, who can be seen here, with his wife, actress Kathryn Grody, making potato latkes with him.

It could be our new slogan for 2026.

Break Bread, Not Heads.

And yes, I know latkes are technically made with matzo meal, not bread.  Just think of it as a starting point. 

And a gift.

Duke Ellington – Auld Lang Syne