Winners and Losers

About 150 onlookers watched as a grouping of large brushed bronze letters spelling out the name of our current POTUS, and authorized and installed at his direction, was literally picked out of the white Carrara marble facade (Note: Under court order) of Washington, DC’s  Kennedy Center over the weekend.

Of course, no civilians literally saw the building without those letters. 

For whatever reason (Note: Use your imagination) it all happened behind a very large scaffolding.  

Still worth visiting

Thus denying the pleasure so many millions of Americans would have gotten at viewing the restoration of that very simple and eternally elegant phrase:

The John F. Kennedy Memorial Center for the Performing Arts

As it was designated by an official act of Congress.

Envisioned and designed by architect Edward Durrell Stone in the 1960s.

And subsequently experienced by hundreds of millions of people worldwide since its doors first opened well over half a century ago.

The stories these halls could tell

In actuality, a national arts center was first suggested by First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt back in the 1930s, pushed through Congress and signed into law by Pres. Dwight D. Eisenhower in the late 1950s, and then led into fundraising existence by Pres. Kennedy and First Lady Jackie Kennedy, who championed the arts and education all through his administration in the early 1960s.

But after Pres. Kennedy was assassinated this national cultural arts center was renamed as a “living memorial” to him by its bi-partisan board of directors.  

And through bi-partisan acts of Congress and private donations, to the tune of $70 million, it was willed into existence.

Though the $1.5 million of Carrara marble was not part of the cost. 

That was donated by the Italian government specifically to honor of our slain president.

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and of course, the unforgettable bust of JFK

I asked a close friend of mine who also happens to be a production designer on a lot of movies, what happens to the inevitable cracked marble and if it could be replaced or filled in.  Because among thousands of even more important things being destroyed under 47’s rule, I worry about all this physical historical destruction and its lasting impact.

Especially since it’s easier for me to deal with the literal than with the metaphysical.

Though he couldn’t provide specific details he assured me, ‘yes’ it could be restored good as new, and that I wouldn’t be able to tell the difference, even if he and a tiny group of experts (Note: The latter my words, not his), could.

Well, at least that’s one thing off the list of our now 80-year-old contemporary Typhoid Mary’s gold leafed Era of Deconstruction.

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Not this time, old man

Though it feels more like an Age of Anti-Reconstruction.

I’m not much for iconography or symbols but there was something about the defacement and debasement of the Kennedy Center that really got me. 

Perhaps it’s because my earliest political memory was of my Dad lifting little mini-Me on his shoulders in the Bronx in 1960 to see Pres. Kennedy being driven through the boroughs of New York City on his presidential campaign to deafening cheering crowds.

The same type of crowds that assembled this week on the streets of the city outside Madison Square Garden to share in the joys of the NY Knicks’ playoff games against the San Antonio Spurs. 

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The city that never sleeps

Whether you’re a basketball fan or not, the city became united and mesmerized by its hometown team regaining its past glories as it edged closer and closer to its first NBA title since right after the Kennedy Center first opened in the early 1970s.

Yet our current POTUS once again managed to earn the monicker of President Buzzkill by determining to fly back to his hometown, the same one that voted virulently against him in all three of his White House Runs, to attend the third playoff game.

This, in turn, required EVERYONE within the vicinity of the game who were literally jumping with joy  on the streets at the prospect of sharing in the visceral excitement of being within the vicinity of the game, to be literally banned OFF the streets to make way for HIM.

You had to know NY was gonna show up somehow

And for his Secret Service and law enforcement liaisons to cavalierly treat the tens of thousands of celebratory New Yorkers as no more than a nuisance – i.e. sacrificial collateral – to ensure HIS personal viewing pleasure.

Which would be bad enough if he had managed to fully stay awake through the proceedings instead of catching 30, 40 or 50 winks with his ass planted into one of the few prime, and very in-demand, seats.

Not that any ordinary Joe or Jane could have afforded to be inside. 

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The truth hurts

Only that it might’ve been nice to breathe in the second-hand fumes of victory from right outside.

That, of course, was not to be.

And, fittingly, that third playoff game, the one that the geriatric man whose name we shall not mention – okay, Sir Rip Van Wrinkle – was the ONLY one the NY Knicks managed to LOSE.

Fascinating that someone who sees himself as a perpetual winner seems to be generating so much loss, for so many, including himself. 

And that the moment he leaves the WINNING begins once again.

We did what we had to do

Not only for the living legacy of an American arts institution but for the hometown crowd on the streets of NYC and a small group of elite athletes who resurrected a sports franchise and once again brought New Yorkers together.

Not only did the Knicks go on to win the following 4th game at MSG, the one our Commander and Creep did not attend. 

But on Saturday night they emerged victorious in the 5th game in San Antonio, regaining the NBA championship crown for the first time in more than 50 years.

WE DID IT

To state it in simpler terms, the only playoff game they lost when the one where….

Well, you do the math.

And consider what that might mean for our country’s winning and losing stream going forward.

GO NY GO NY

People, GET IT TOGETHER

Joe Biden is Hillary 2.0 and Al Gore 3.0!  His time has passed!

Elizabeth Warren can’t win! Her voice is shrill and Republicans hate her!

Gay South Bend Mayor Pete demoted his Black chief of police for illegally wire-tapping his officers.  He’s Mr. White Privilege!  And not gay enough, anyway!

Oh, and don’t get me started on Bernie Sanders! We call him the liberal Trump.  Did you know he wants to let rapists, not to mention the Boston Marathon bomber, vote?? AND he’s a socialist!  I don’t know if even I could vote for that!

And did you know Amy Klobuchar is so nasty to her staff that when one of them forgot to get her a fork for her salad she pulled out her comb and made them sit there as she scooped her salad onto it?  Yes, and then, when she was done, barked, “Clean it!” right at them.  She’s not a president, she’s a harridan!

Oh that old chestnut…

And Beto O’Rourke???  Ugh, he’s so annoying!! I don’t know why but he’s SO ANNOYING!! Mr. Mom who never stays home!  And it’s like, WHO IS HE?????

But Kamala Harris.  As if someone from near San Francisco is ever gonna be president.  Plus she’s Black AND Indian AND married to a white Jewish guy!  Grow the f up!  Do you even know what country you’re living in these days???  Donald Trump is the president!!!!

I am sooo tired of all of this and the election is 18 months away.  Heck, even the first Democratic primary is not until Feb. 3 in Iowa.

Who will help me get through this???

Or course the bigger question is WHO will help US?

Strength in numbers??

Yes, I know only we can help ourselves.  We are the change we’ve been waiting for.   I get it.  I’ve been to therapy.  Both the personal kind and the Obama kind.

Still, the fact remains…I can’t.  I’m tired, I’m cranky and I’m pissed off with people who share most of my political views.  And I refuse to watch a THREE-HOUR Avengers movie.  One was enough for me and I can’t even recall which one I did see.

But now it’s THREE HOURS???

Why are we paying to watch super villains and superheroes when we have so many of both in Washington, D.C. and on cable news daily???

OK fine… I do find the Hulk relatable.

I overheard a bunch of film students talking in rapt excitement about the new Star Wars movie the other day and had an acid flashback moment to 1980 at a Fox screening room when I was watching one of the first pre-release press showings of The Empire Strikes Back.

It was good.  For what it was.  But if you would have told me that almost 40 years later we’d still have to be dealing with this I would have told you…  Well, never mind what I would have told you.  Because it’s the same thing I’m telling you about this upcoming election.

SAVE YOUR PENNIES!

As much as people think this is an unusual time – and in many ways it is – in a lot of other ways it’s no different than so many of the swings and changes we’ve endured as a country all through the 20th and 21st centuries that I’ve lived through thus far.

I can recall watching Bobby Kennedy and Martin Luther King assassinated on TV, not to mention Jack Ruby shooting JFK’s would-be assassin live on TV in front of millions of people – a clip that lived on a lot more than 40 years later.  Probably in perpetuity of the world as we know (or don’t know) it.

.. and again thanks to shows like Mad Men #imissDonDraper

I also remember as a teenager the police shooting college protestors just a few years older than me in Kent State Ohio.  All they were doing were being teenagers, trying to end a needless war in which they and their loved ones could have been killed in, and, well, throwing a few rocks when the National Guards released tear gas on them. But then the National Guard shot 67 rounds of bullets in 13 seconds into the crowd.   Four students who were NOT EVEN PROTESTING, just observing, were killed.

You’d think we would have gotten the gun and the law enforcement thing under control by now.  Of course, we haven’t.

In case you’re not feeling outraged yet…

Nevertheless, we have survived.  Decades of intolerance turning into more tolerance and then acceptance by many more than some in marginalized communities.  Though not by others.  We even have more laws than ever to back them up, though not enough and even those aren’t always enforced.

Point being, things were REALLY bad then.  George Wallace, an avowed racist, ran for president and got 13% of the vote.  And then, of course, he too was shot.  And paralyzed.  What goes around comes around, right???

I’ll keep telling myself that, Chairy

Well, that’s what we’re hoping for right now, isn’t it?  That somehow the haters and the shooters will get theirs because we need CHANGE?  And right NOW!  Because we’ve been complacent.  We need to UPEND EVERYTHING because, well, things have never been this bad.

I’ve actually said this myself.

And then there’s this…

Yet it occurred to me, watching coverage of the latest shooting at a house of worship – this time an Orthodox Jewish synagogue in California where a crazed shooter killed one person and wounded several others – that radicalism has never quite worked in the U.S.

Individuals commit radical acts, sometimes when they’re part of the public and other times when they’re in office, but the radical doesn’t define US in the long term.

We’re more of a gradual change environment, brought on by individuals and groups proposing radical change.  You need radical thinking to move the needle.  But to lead, you need bold measures and smart, well-researched, practical plans that can be willfully executed through the actions of a President and Congress elected by we, the people.

Imagine that!?!?!

For me this means we need to stop being hysterical.  Accusatory.  And refrain from eating our own.  You all know what I mean.  No one who has lived a life of any age is perfect.  Certainly no one who has done anything in public service.  Especially no one anywhere near 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. at the moment.  Especially the sloth at the top of the sloths.

OK maybe not sloths. Look how cute this one is! #justiceforsloths

This is simply a call to calm down and realize that when we decide whom to nominate to run against you know who for president there is no recipe for the perfect chocolate cake.  Or even a vanilla one.  When someone is kind enough to ask you what you want them to bake for your birthday celebration you weigh all the factors (Note: Sometimes literally and sometimes not) and pick out the one you have a hankering for at the time.

But seldom do you order the cake this much in advance.  Not even a wedding cake.

Maybe wedding cake wasn’t the best analogy

Oh, and if you’re going to a party where the birthday boy or girl chooses chocolate you don’t sit in the corner, refuse to eat the cake at all or bitch and moan that they didn’t serve the Carrot one that you would have preferred.    And for the record, I hate carrot cake.

Though I have managed to down it at a party or two in order to celebrate someone or something that I cared about.

The Beatles – “We Can Work It Out”