Winners and Losers

About 150 onlookers watched as a grouping of large brushed bronze letters spelling out the name of our current POTUS, and authorized and installed at his direction, was literally picked out of the white Carrara marble facade (Note: Under court order) of Washington, DC’s  Kennedy Center over the weekend.

Of course, no civilians literally saw the building without those letters. 

For whatever reason (Note: Use your imagination) it all happened behind a very large scaffolding.  

Still worth visiting

Thus denying the pleasure so many millions of Americans would have gotten at viewing the restoration of that very simple and eternally elegant phrase:

The John F. Kennedy Memorial Center for the Performing Arts

As it was designated by an official act of Congress.

Envisioned and designed by architect Edward Durrell Stone in the 1960s.

And subsequently experienced by hundreds of millions of people worldwide since its doors first opened well over half a century ago.

The stories these halls could tell

In actuality, a national arts center was first suggested by First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt back in the 1930s, pushed through Congress and signed into law by Pres. Dwight D. Eisenhower in the late 1950s, and then led into fundraising existence by Pres. Kennedy and First Lady Jackie Kennedy, who championed the arts and education all through his administration in the early 1960s.

But after Pres. Kennedy was assassinated this national cultural arts center was renamed as a “living memorial” to him by its bi-partisan board of directors.  

And through bi-partisan acts of Congress and private donations, to the tune of $70 million, it was willed into existence.

Though the $1.5 million of Carrara marble was not part of the cost. 

That was donated by the Italian government specifically to honor of our slain president.

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and of course, the unforgettable bust of JFK

I asked a close friend of mine who also happens to be a production designer on a lot of movies, what happens to the inevitable cracked marble and if it could be replaced or filled in.  Because among thousands of even more important things being destroyed under 47’s rule, I worry about all this physical historical destruction and its lasting impact.

Especially since it’s easier for me to deal with the literal than with the metaphysical.

Though he couldn’t provide specific details he assured me, ‘yes’ it could be restored good as new, and that I wouldn’t be able to tell the difference, even if he and a tiny group of experts (Note: The latter my words, not his), could.

Well, at least that’s one thing off the list of our now 80-year-old contemporary Typhoid Mary’s gold leafed Era of Deconstruction.

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Not this time, old man

Though it feels more like an Age of Anti-Reconstruction.

I’m not much for iconography or symbols but there was something about the defacement and debasement of the Kennedy Center that really got me. 

Perhaps it’s because my earliest political memory was of my Dad lifting little mini-Me on his shoulders in the Bronx in 1960 to see Pres. Kennedy being driven through the boroughs of New York City on his presidential campaign to deafening cheering crowds.

The same type of crowds that assembled this week on the streets of the city outside Madison Square Garden to share in the joys of the NY Knicks’ playoff games against the San Antonio Spurs. 

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The city that never sleeps

Whether you’re a basketball fan or not, the city became united and mesmerized by its hometown team regaining its past glories as it edged closer and closer to its first NBA title since right after the Kennedy Center first opened in the early 1970s.

Yet our current POTUS once again managed to earn the monicker of President Buzzkill by determining to fly back to his hometown, the same one that voted virulently against him in all three of his White House Runs, to attend the third playoff game.

This, in turn, required EVERYONE within the vicinity of the game who were literally jumping with joy  on the streets at the prospect of sharing in the visceral excitement of being within the vicinity of the game, to be literally banned OFF the streets to make way for HIM.

You had to know NY was gonna show up somehow

And for his Secret Service and law enforcement liaisons to cavalierly treat the tens of thousands of celebratory New Yorkers as no more than a nuisance – i.e. sacrificial collateral – to ensure HIS personal viewing pleasure.

Which would be bad enough if he had managed to fully stay awake through the proceedings instead of catching 30, 40 or 50 winks with his ass planted into one of the few prime, and very in-demand, seats.

Not that any ordinary Joe or Jane could have afforded to be inside. 

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The truth hurts

Only that it might’ve been nice to breathe in the second-hand fumes of victory from right outside.

That, of course, was not to be.

And, fittingly, that third playoff game, the one that the geriatric man whose name we shall not mention – okay, Sir Rip Van Wrinkle – was the ONLY one the NY Knicks managed to LOSE.

Fascinating that someone who sees himself as a perpetual winner seems to be generating so much loss, for so many, including himself. 

And that the moment he leaves the WINNING begins once again.

We did what we had to do

Not only for the living legacy of an American arts institution but for the hometown crowd on the streets of NYC and a small group of elite athletes who resurrected a sports franchise and once again brought New Yorkers together.

Not only did the Knicks go on to win the following 4th game at MSG, the one our Commander and Creep did not attend. 

But on Saturday night they emerged victorious in the 5th game in San Antonio, regaining the NBA championship crown for the first time in more than 50 years.

WE DID IT

To state it in simpler terms, the only playoff game they lost when the one where….

Well, you do the math.

And consider what that might mean for our country’s winning and losing stream going forward.

GO NY GO NY

We All Have AIDS

This Monday, Dec. 1st is World AIDS Day.  It was started by two public information officers at the World Health Organization to raise awareness of the AIDS global pandemic and has been observed every Dec. 1 since it began in 1988.

But here is its official purpose as stated by the WHO, explained far better than I ever could.

The day is an opportunity for public and private partners to spread awareness about the status of the pandemic and encourage progress in HIV/AIDS prevention, treatment and care around the world. It has become one of the most widely recognized international health days and a key opportunity to raise awareness, commemorate those who have died, and celebrate victories such as increased access to treatment and prevention services.

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Including seeing panels of the AIDS quilt

Approximately 32 million people have died from AIDS-related illness and, in the eighties and nineties, a number of them were my friends, co-workers, acquaintances and peers. 

The fact that I somehow survived through that modern day Holocaust is a random stroke of luck I will never fully understand and not a day goes by where I don’t think of someone or something that reminds me of those times.

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This is more than just a ribbon

I understand why this is not on the minds of most people and I’m thrilled that HIV-AIDS is not the death sentence it was when so many in my circle endured an unimaginable and truly horrible demise. 

At that time, the U.S. government, led by Ronald Reagan, turned its back on them in silence, ensuring its complicity with what amounted to the passive genocide of a significant number of young gay men who came of age around the same time that I did.  There were others affected – I.V. drug users, hemophiliacs – and soon many millions more in “third world” countries not as fortunate to have access to the advanced health care that the gay community led the world in demanding.

When people around you are dropping dead left and right it’s easy to demand because nothing else much matters.  And if I still sounds a little raw around this, well, yeah, it’s still personal for me.

And always will be.

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This was our reality

That’s why it particularly cheesed me off when the Trump Administration this past week announced that its State Department was forbidding its employees and those receiving State Department grants from “publicly promoting World AIDS Day through any communication channels, including social media, media engagements, speeches or other public-facing messaging.”

Needless to say it also announced not a penny of U.S. government funds should be used in the commemoration.

Here comes that anger again…

Because…um…they can?

Because Trump withdrew America from the World Health Organization when he took office in January?

Because he thought the U.S. gave them too many millions and wanted to cut costs? 

Because other countries didn’t pay enough? 

What are we even doing??

Because he blamed them for Covid-19, putting a blot on his presidency and not supporting his many and vast conspiracy theories around that disease?

Choose one or all of the above.  But not none. 

Because the cruelty is the point.

Here is an article from the NY Times that lays it out pretty well.

Here’s two others from The Guardian if you can’t get behind the N.Y. Times paywall.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/nov/27/awareness-days-events-trump

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/nov/27/world-aids-day

A State Department spokesperson makes the laughable claim that “awareness is not a strategy” in defending Trump’s actions. 

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AGHHHHH

But if that’s the case how does it square with such Trump pronouncements as Leif Erickson Day, Anti-Communism Week, National Energy Domination Month and his proclamation declaring May 28, 2025 the 101st Anniversary of U.S. Border Patrol?

Clearly, a commemorative day or anniversary or week or month or year is in the eye of the declarer.

Too bad a viral infection is not.

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How they’d like the ribbon to be used

But this is the same guy who ended the global AIDS initiative started by George W. Bush, of all people, (PEPFAR), which is credited with saving more than 25 million lives from HIV since it began.

I’ll leave you all with the words uttered at the last AIDS march I attended, words that were coined by N.Y. activists in 1986, and posted beneath a pink triangle in direct reference to the Nazi era.

Silence = Death.

Andra Day – “Rise Up”