Progressive… ish

This week marked the opening of The Obama Presidential Center.  Rather than merely a facility to store and view the best and brightest moments of the eight-year Barack Obama presidency, it is very much something else.

We’ll start with eye catching!

Part museum, part community campus, part city park complete with a basketball court and barbecue grilling stations, along with vegetable gardens, walkways, a physical to-scale recreation of the Oval Office, as well as a destination, state-of-the-art, neighborhood gathering place housing numerous educational programs, classes and activities for people of all ages.

No, this is not a plug for the president or First Lady Michelle Obama, or the Center.

… though you can always get a picture with them

Even though the place seems quite impressive and cool to me.

And the former First Couple are, in my opinion, well, let’s just say sorely missed.

A wild understatement

Rather it is me urging everyone to take a look at two things:

The first is the ambition of what they are trying to create – something innately and historically American because it is a bit new and ingenious.

As was stated numerous times at its inaugural ceremonies on Friday, the building and grounds is not primarily a gauzy, nostalgic look-back at the Obama years. 

Annie Leibovitz's Portraits of President Obama and His Family | Vanity Fair
OK but can we look back at how adorable this family is/was???!

Instead it is an attempt to revitalize the First Lady’s hometown neighborhood on the south side of Chicago (Note: And his adopted one) by providing it with one of the largest, functional and certainly most expensive community centers in the country. 

A place that fosters education, teaches history (note: the successes as well as the failures of the O years), and encourages reflection. 

While at the same time giving the average local or far-away international tourist a fun place to hang out.

An out-of-the-box stab at something different.

That, in itself, serves as a more than apt metaphor and representation of what the Obamas and his presidency meant for the country at the time he was elected.

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But as impressive as all of this is, it was the theme and tenor of the former president’s remarks on opening day that really got to me, and got me thinking.

No, I will not be summarizing the speech or breaking it down.  You can watch it yourself here:   

Or better yet read the transcript of what he said here.

Rather it was his reminder to the crowd, and the worldwide audience no-doubt watching, that brings me to my second point.

Which is that despite the insanity currently happening, both in the country and within the now vomitous gold gilded Oval Office (Note: My words, he was far more polite), the 250 year history of the United States has always been a constant back and forth swing between freedom vs. repression, equality vs. racism  and the upper ruling class vs. the “poor.” (Note: I put “poor” in  quotes since 99% plus of us would be considered peons if we use present-day wealth disparities as the measure that determined who really ruled who).

Not to mention a perpetual fight for rights and non-discrimination by the many, and frankly countless, diverse minority groups comprising the essential tapestry fabric that is truly “America.”

What does it mean to be a country whose very founding was based on the tapestry principle (Note: Carole King excepted)?

Carole King: Tapestry Album Review | Pitchfork
OK but do listen to this album after you finish reading.

That despite all of our many faults we are still the only place in the world where you STILL AUTOMATICALLY AND LEGALLY become one of us, i.e. AMERICAN, because you live here.

As a child of immigrant grandparents, who grew up in a neighborhood of immigrants in the most immigrant populous and racially mixed U.S. city in the country during the most progressive decade in U.S. history (Note: NYC in the 1960s. And it didn’t seem so special at the time) I took all the mix and match cultural stuff sort of for granted.

But as an adult the reality of who we also are on the other side of big city inclusion has come crashingly into focus in too many unexpected and frankly, for me, unimaginable ways.

Reality GIFs | Tenor
It ain’t rainbows, my friend.

So when Pres. Obama got to the part of his speech were he spoke of the radical nature of our Founding Fathers for creating the FIRST country not ruled by kings and lords and the strong dominating the weak – aka “the many ruled by the few” it gave me pause. 

Especially when he pointed out that despite their writing a Declaration of Independence of “inalienable rights” every person in the country possessed, these were men who also left “slavery intact” while restricting voting to “white men who owned property.”

Constitution Day: Hamilton edition – The College of Arts & Sciences at  Texas A&M University
Checking my notes on Hamilton…

Therein laid one of many contradictions that is and always has been these United States.  A group of men with “the genius to provide us with a framework that allows each generation to make our union more (Note: Or less) perfect.”

As he recounted the pushing and pulling in each direction over more than two centuries (Note: See the above speech link) I was particularly taken with a quote from a Boston minister (Note: Usually attributed to Dr. Martin Luther King) during the Civil War era. 

This was a time when slaves would escape to the freedom of northern states only to be legally captured, shackled in chains and dragged, or sailed by ship, back down south.  And once again become mere property of their masters with nothing approaching inalienable rights of life, liberty and happiness.

I do not present to understand the moral universe,’ said Reverend Theodore Parker, one of the leading slave abolitionists from Boston at the time.  “..The arc is a long one… I cannot calculate the curve…by sight…. But from what I see, I am sure it bends towards justice.”

MANSFIELD: The Arc of the Moral Universe | CoolCleveland
Ok but how long?

Point being, that despite a lot of evidence to the contrary, namely the case of a young Boston man who had just been seized and hauled away by hundreds of armed officers back into slavery, Rev. Parker had lived and experienced enough in the country to know that in the long run this would never hold and that… eventually… justice would prevail.

I wanted to chalk this up to just another inspirational, glass half-filled Obama speech until that night, while cleaning out some of the physical files in my home office I came upon a news clipping from the N.Y. Post from 1964 my mother had saved.  It was about my third grade elementary school class and I hadn’t looked at in years. 

You might not be able to make out the wording in this copy, but here’s the first paragraph:

When the sun hits the windows in class 3-303 at P.S. 86 it is filtered through the blue cardboard tulips and orange paper daisies pasted to the panes.  In that mixture of gold, blue and orange sits Efrain, the lone Puerto Rican in the class.  Four other transfer students, all Negroes, are scattered through the room.  And there are 29 white students…

Truth be told, I had no idea we were one of the first forced busing, integrated schools in the state. 

Nor did I have any idea Efrain was Puerto Rican.  I just knew his skin had a slightly bronzed tint and the straight brownish blonde hair of the time that I had always wanted (Note: Yes, even then).

But I do remember him, as the last paragraph of the article states, at the blackboard. 

And the adjacent window covered in blue construction paper and orange daisies  

Where he quickly added up a series of numbers much faster than any of the rest of us could.

As for the four “Negro” kids, it never occurred to me that this was unusual.  I didn’t really think about it.  And strange as it might seem to you now, few, if any, of the rest of us did.

That WAS America in that moment in time. 

For me.

And my friends.

And I suspect it will be again.

Or at least, can be.

Bruce Springsteen – “Land of Hope and Dreams”

Notes for the 70 million

And how is everyone today?

to put it mildly

Well, I guess my magic eight ball failed me.  Which means I’m out of the political prognosticating business. 

My last post predicted, with great assurance, that Kamala Harris would be elected president.   A historic achievement for so many reasons but mostly for the sake of the future of the country and the world.

Oh god, I’m gonna be sick

Of course, personally, I’m not that noble. 

The truth is I abhor racists, sexual predators and people who brazenly lie, break the law and prey on the trusting nature of those less cynical than I am. 

Which means pretty much everybody. 

Also, as a Scorpio, another of my truths is  I have a weakness for revenge.  I’m not proud of it and have to work to keep it in check.  But somehow I convinced myself that shaming the biggest bully in the U.S. as a loser in the public square would be justice.           

Why can’t I just get what I want??

Well, nothing good happens when you let the righteous anger of revenge get the best of you. 

How do I know that?  Witness the results of the 2024 presidential election.  Seventy-four million Americans took their own palpable rage out on the other 70 million of us who were trying to take the high road for the good of their country even though many of us were quite rageful and revengeful deep down.  In doing so, they elevated a  bully to the highest office in the land, and perhaps the world, hoping he’d…

Make their world better?

Nope

Protect them?

another no

Beat up (Note: Or worse) the people they don’t like, disagree with or who look different than they do?

Get them some more money?

All of the above and quite a lot more?

Not at all.

I have ZERO idea. 

Here’s what I do know.

As a college professor, advisor and mentor with hundreds of current and former students in my life, I heard stories from A LOT of traumatized young people this week. 

  • Women in their twenties who were quickly obtaining birth control because they feared the next administration would outlaw their method, track their menstrual cycles and…much worse. 
  • Sad students I had taught or am currently teaching who have non-white immigrant parents and are terrified for themselves and their families despite the fact they were born here. 
It’s this.. but not funny at all
  • Gay, lesbian and non-binary students so depressed they couldn’t speak about their present, much less their futures, even in a so-called safe space. 
  • Trans students living openly wondering why they are so hated and others planning to transition who are now delaying becoming their true selves for fear of practical, and very public, retribution.
  • Very, very white students dreading Thanksgiving dinner with their gloating, MAGA relatives.
  • And across-the-board concerns, despite political beliefs, from all of them, about not only the health of the planet but their careers and economic futures under a president they universally see as a geriatric version of Joaquin Phoenix’s Joker. (Note:  Their analogy, not mine).
The dancing is similar but you know Trump doesn’t do stairs

It was hard to know what to say.

Not to mention, heartbreaking.

This is not the world they imagined.  It’s certainly not one I every fully acknowledged. 

Or had I?

Was this me?

This led me to the only perspective and advice I had to give, that I’ve shared in bits and pieces on social media.  It’s not a solution or a practical guide of what to do.  I can’t think straight, or even gay enough, to offer much on that score at the moment.  But what I do know is:

70 MILLION PEOPLE VOTING FOR SOMETHING IS NOT NOTHING.  It is the possibility of SOMETHING.

sigh

As a gay man of a certain age, these days I try to not dwell on key events of the eighties.  But like all trauma, and deep disappointments and losses, they are forever engrained in my psyche and have shaped me into what I hope is the decent, and mostly loving, person I am today.

Back then I thought it was all over after Reagan was elected and then re-elected thanks in great part to fear of “the other,” greed and Christian nationalism. In particular the latter (and Reagan) capitalized on a fear and hatred of the LGBTQ+ community, turned their back on the AIDS crisis and literally ignored the deaths of many tens of thousands of American citizens, not to mention eventually millions around the world. 

Welcome

A lot of them were my friends and peers and watching the mass indifference of so many of those so-called citizens basking in the glow of “Morning in America” made me sick to my stomach and uncontrollably angry. And, eventually, quite hopeless.

In those years I was convinced as a country we were soulless and probably doomed, not to mention completely morally bankrupt, and that nothing good could ever occur again for me, and certainly not US. I never, EVER imagined we’d get to Barack Obama. Not. A. Chance.

Did we ever deserve this?

But now our country has clearly changed again (as it always does), has to some extent been deluded by disinformation, has to some extent chosen racisms/sexism/homophobia and others isms, and has to more than some extent chosen to be guided by fear and delusion vs. reality-based evolution.

So we’re going to have to go through some rocky times, most likely extremely rocky times, before we get to “the promised land.”

For real though

Fortunately, the nature of this country historically – especially in relation to change – is that there are huge swings back and forth as we evolve.  It’s never easy and we often metaphorically, and literally, go kicking and screaming, but against all odds we manage to, if not get there, at least progress.  Consider, more than a century and a half ago there was a CIVIL WAR.  People you knew in the south were shooting at and killing those in the north they disagreed with.  There should have been NO WAY for this country, much less any country as young as ours, to survive it. 

Will it now happen again and include the Midwest, Southwest and Pacific coast states?  As I said, I’m out of the predicting business.  If only because I don’t even want to contemplate being trained in the use of a contemporary style musket. 

Though, if needed, I could, and will, certainly learn.

Meow

Our CURRENT SITTING VICE-PRESIDENT, Kamala Harris, said in her concession speech – “The light of America’s promise will always be bright – as long as we never give up – and as long as we keep fighting.”

Endings = Beginnings = …Well, that’s up to us.

It’s okay to be sad and depressed and to escape with your vice of choice for a few days. Then it’s time to start again, all of us, as so many before us have done.

Watch out, cuz here I come

And remember, those aged 18-29 voted against the Bully by a clear margin – over 10%.

That’s the beginning of a whole lot of something.  A seeable slice of hope in our always uncertain future.

Chappell Roan – “Good Luck, Babe”