Sunday, April 20, 2025 – It’s BOTH Easter Sunday and the last day of Passover.
It’s for all the people that believe in this!
YAY, says 8-year-old me. Because in those days, only Easter got talked about in pop culture. The best we Jewish kids got was maybe a mention at the end of a local newscast but usually not. Meanwhile, that week in school there was the painting of Easter eggs and sometimes the appearance of a large bunny.
Needless to say, the significance of the eggs, the bunny and the holiday itself was never explained.
Of course, I did know a little about Passover. It was a holiday where you ate matzoh – a bland tasting flatbread – and celebrated (Note: Well, sort of…) because centuries ago the Angel of Death “passed over” the homes of Jews, who were once again fleeing their neighborhoods in terror because bad people were trying to kill us.
Sigh
We were always fleeing somewhere and often we got caught. But not all the time. This day we got away with our lives and whatever it was we were being hunted down for, in this case the imagined crime of simply being ourselves.
Imagine being hunted down for no apparent reason other than something someone else makes up, or assumes, about who you really are. Hard to believe, right?
I simply cannot imagine!
Meanwhile Christ, who was said to be a Jew (Note: I learned this to my great surprise a few years later) was, according to Christianity, literally resurrected on Easter Sunday, after being murdered by… well, let’s not get into that.
We’ll just leave it at that
Anyway, so this year the confluence of both days means t’s a celebration for… both sides?
Oh, who knows because obviously there are more than those raised Jewish and Christian in the world. A lot more. I mean, even atheists count, right?
I’m not an observant Jew and my husband is certainly not an observant Catholic. At all. Yet when you’re raised with religion it somehow becomes a part of you culturally, no matter how much you try to ignore it. An imprint on your early soul that every so often surfaces in quite unexpected ways.
Recently, I realized that for both of us it will sometimes rear its head in…. kindness and understanding.
Just call me Katie!
Isn’t that weird?
Perhaps not.
All those stories of suffering or being chased for no reason other than who you are – when I consider it the best I can say is that what we both took away from all that indoctrinating dogma was… empathy.
Not sure that was the plan.
You need a hug
And maybe being gay at a time when it wasn’t so cool to be, is what really helped with that.
On the other hand, God – or whatever you imagine her/him/they to be, works in mysterious ways, right?
Which is to say, on this rare day when two different religions simultaneously celebrate survival, it might be a good time to consider the value of understanding and empathy for those less fortunate than ourselves.
You got this!
To honor those who live by that mantra.
And to be very, very, very suspect of anyone who does not.
The new de facto leader of the Republican Party brags he wants to ban Muslims from entering the U.S. and limit the rights of other foreigners, such as the tens of thousands of Syrian refugees fleeing genocide in their native country, from ever getting inside our borders.
As a Jewish fellow, all I can say is good thing he wasn’t around when my grandparents entered the country. I’d have a whole different life. Or no life at all.
Here’s what it says on The Statue of Liberty, which at last glance still stands in New York Harbor:
Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these the homeless, tempest-tossed to me,
I lift my lamp beside the golden door.
Maybe we take the Statue down in light of 9/11? Or just erase the words. After all, it was a gift from France. They probably wouldn’t mind because of what happened in Paris a few months ago, right?
We could replace it with a shiny gold building that looks like a Dunhill cigarette lighter. That’s Gloria Steinem’s analogy about Trump towers, not mine. Because, well, how can you say it better?
Jugs of Justice
Apropos of something, I have another question. When Trump skipped the last debate before the Iowa primary on Thursday, he claimed to have instead spearheaded an event that raised $6 million for our wounded war veterans through his website. But the only donation link on his website was to his Trump Foundation, which the PUBLIC TRUST(s) will go to our vets. But if this is so, can’t he still get some sort of personal TAX DEDUCTION from it? It’s His Foundation, right?
Any accountants out there know how to maneuver cash as a deduction amid all of the full legal slime written on a multi-billionaire’s federal tax return? Cause every little bit counts – that’s how you get and stay rich to begin with – so I’d love to get a full reading on this. That would be my American Dream at the moment. Assuming anyone could out-maneuver him or his money. Hillary? Bill? Bernie? Bueller? Anyone???
Sorkin, can you hear meeeee?
A friend of mine wrote on Facebook last week that he doesn’t see how discrimination and exclusion can be remedied by discrimination and exclusion. Okay, he was referring to the Oscars and how under the Motion Picture Academy’s new rules to remedy #OscarsSoWhite people like the lesbian female writer of Nine to Five; one of the biggest child star actors of the sixties and seventies; and another woman who was a pioneering animator back in the day, would have their voting rights stripped despite many decades of membership that always guaranteed voting. Where do these new Academy rule makers think they are – Florida? Don’t they remember that almost a decade ago, they gave Al Gore the Oscar?
Um… no no… we’re good
Of course Donald Trump’s frontrunner status can be compared to Oscar voting. To quote the words Mel Brooks’ character of Hitler sings in his megahit musical The Producers:
The thing you’ve got to know is…
Everything is show biz….
After which point he sings: Heil myself, Heil to me….
Ring a bell – or lighter – yet?
#HomerKnows
Try explaining the current state of our affairs to small classrooms full of 21 year olds as I attempted this week. Sure, these were writing classes, not political ones, but to be a good writer one needs to draw from real life. Which means an understanding of human behavior in the world as it exists is essential in order to convincingly portray anything remotely recognizable in your made up world.
Somewhere along the line I got flummoxed and actually found myself reduced to phrases like:
It wasn’t always like this.
Or –
Yes, it was crazy, but never this crazy.
And then finally –
No, I’m not sure this is a joke. So why are we all laughing? Well, um, good question!
In the end I’m not sure I did any good at all. I was only hoping at that point, not to make it all seem any worse than it already is.
Me, every 10 seconds
Fortunately, teachers are not held to the same standards as doctors. First Do No Harm dictates the Hippocratic oath. Yeah, right, that wasn’t happening.
I can’t blame any of this on the Trumpless Republican debate because I wasn’t watching, Instead, that night I was actually teaching one of these mini-groups. But unfortunately in an effort for clarity I recorded the damned thing and perused the highlights several days later.
Jeb Bush: Look, I am in the establishment because my dad, the greatest man alive was president of the United States and my brother, who I adore as well as fantastic brother, was president.
Retired neurosurgeon Dr. Carson: I’ve had more two a.m. phone calls than everybody here put together, making life and death decisions, put together very complex teams to accomplish things that have never been done before.
Sen. Ted Cruz: I would note that that the last four questions have been, “Rand, please attack Ted. Marco, please attack Ted. Chris, please attack Ted. Jeb, please attack Ted…” Let me just say this…
Moderator: … It is a debate, sir.
DO NOT LOOK DIRECTLY INTO HIS EYES!!!
Another Moderator: Can you name even one thing that the federal government does now that it should not do at all?
Gov. Chris Christie: How about one that I’ve done in New Jersey for the last six years. That’s get rid of Planned Parenthood funding from the United States of America.
Moderator: Anything bigger than that?
Christie: Bigger than that? Let me tell you something, when you SEE thousands upon thousands upon thousands of children being murdered in the womb, I can’t think of anything better than that.
Sen. Marco Rubio: Well, let me be clear about one thing, there’s only one savior and it’s not me. It’s Jesus Christ who came down to earth and died for our sins..Because in the end, my goal is not simply to live on this earth for 80 years, but to live an eternity with my creator. And I will always allow my faith to influence everything I do.
Walk the walk, Rubio
Oy vey iz mir, as my grandmother used to say. How can this be happening? I have no idea. And I am more confused than ever. But luckily, I’ve never been intimidated by Dunhill lighters. I’ve always thought they were tacky. And the people who used them dumbasses. And I’ve never been afraid to say so.
notes from a chair 